Conflict-Resolution

Learn more about NVC Mediation

(Videos courtesy of Marianne Van Dijk – Cup of Empathy/YouTube Channel)

See more as to NVC & the process of resolving conflicts:

 Connected Conversation

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Three [Dialogic] Choices

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When to Speak and When to Listen – Tricycle: The Buddhist Review

By Oren Jay Sofer

Practice:

Choice-Points

Excerpt: “To practice, choose someone with whom you feel relatively comfortable. This familiarity makes it easier to learn the tool. During a conversation, notice when you choose to speak. If you find yourself talking without having consciously chosen to do so, try stopping and leaving space for the other person to continue. Notice what it’s like to actively choose to say something rather than doing so automatically. Pay particular attention to any urgency or reluctance to speak or any sensations of internal pressure. Use that pressure as a signal to make a more conscious choice.”

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More as to NVC & “choice-points” here.

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Conflict resolution using NVC

Forgiveness Process

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For more re: supported conversations:

NVC Mediation &

Enemy Imagery

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(Courtesy of Ijon via Wikimedia Commons)

You made me look like a complete fool!

“You made me look like a complete fool!” (part 2)

BayNVC | Conflict Hotline

Conflict Hotline – Jan ’10 (1 of 6), Anger

See, too:  (2) (3) (4) (5) (6)

For more as to NVC & Social Change Agency:

Politics & NVC

Tending or Ending a Relationship | The Fearless Heart

“True dialogue can only happen if I enter the conversation willing to be changed by it. If I am unwilling to change, to be affected sufficiently to consider options new to me, on what grounds am I expecting the other person to change?” ~ Miki Kashtan

More about The Little Book of Courageous Living

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How do I give critical feedback without sounding mean?

How to Resolve Conflicts & Create Connection w/ NVC

See also:  Jackal/Giraffe Ears & OFNR

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